Hired A Lover To Fix My Toilet And Now There Is Shit Everywhere
Plumbers fix your leaking toilet cistern.
You don’t hire a plumber because they are fun to have lunch with. Hang out at the bar at the end of the day. Or spend a casual weekend together.
You don’t worry about whether they fit in your culture.
Lovers are people you want to spend a lot of time with. Hang out with. Have deep intense conversations with.
Which do you need to hire? A plumber? Or a lover?